Hitting him again?

He is working full day today and told me his job would end at 9pm today.

I have arranged to go to West Coast Park with my parents and bro's family. I did not tell him about my plan. He didn't ask.....then he started scolding my girl for wearing such ugly clothes. My girl told him that mommy told her to wear a short skirt over her 3/4 tights to prevent her white tights from turning black. I re-inforced what my girl said and I got scolded by him. He shouted that "That's why I'm telling you it's damn ugly!"

I ignored his words and didn't get my girl to change her clothes. She didn't have any other pants except jeans. So I don't bother and anyway, it's a trend nowadays to wear skirts over tights.

While getting ready to go out (sending him to work first), my kids fight....apparently over a toy binoculars which my girl found. Two of them were snatching and my boy started pulling my girl's hair. MY husband was quite angry over it and started scolding my girl, asking her f she knows why her bro pulls her hair. She doesn't...

As we were getting ready to go out, my boy suddenly cried and ran into the room looking for me. I was in the room taking their socks. When my girl came into the room, I asked her what happened and she told me daddy beat him with the glass bottle that daddy drinks his beer.

Shocked but unsure what she really meant, I went out to ask him about the bottle thing. He brushed me off angrily say, "what bottle? don't have lah". Didn't want to pursue further in case he would be late for his job, we left the house.

In the car, my husband kept asking my girl why she allows others to bully her and if she don't find out why she was being bullied (like what her bro did just now), she would be caned! My gosh! Is that a threat to my girl? Is that so serious that we need to threaten her?

I'm getting worried....when is he losing his control....